Thomas Ellis, MA, LMFT emeritus
While I am no longer providing therapy services, I am available for speaking engagements and group presentations. I've had two books published; “This Thing Called Grief: New Understandings of Loss” and “Enzo Isn’t There,” a children’s book, both of which can be found in most libraries, amazon.com and local book stores.
My specialty throughout my career has been primarily traumatic loss and complicated grief. The ambiguous loss work has included working with the M.S. Society, Veterans Administration, Brain Injury Association, Autism groups, to name a few. I continue to write, educate and present on these important issues, as I enter this next phase of retirement.
I was born and raised in Hastings Minnesota. I am a graduate of the University of St. Thomas, the University of Minnesota and St. Mary’s University of Minnesota where I earned a master’s degree in Counseling Psychology. I have also completed a certification & licensure in Marriage and Family Therapy. I am a parent and value family as a top priority. I am a life long learner and collaborate with others during challenging times. I also value the art of writing, music, visual work and the environment in creating a sense of balance.
My greatest passion is spending quality time with my two daughters. My father died in 1986 following ten years of a disability related to a brain tumor. Before founding CHCC, I was the Executive Director of the Center for Grief, Loss and Transition for 14 years beginning in 1996. I was also a 2nd generation Funeral Director, taking over for my father after he died. My life experiences and compassion for others is what brought me to this work. My focus has always been in working with individuals and families who have experienced a traumatic loss. I am also a musician, a gardener, enjoy traveling and being outdoors.
I am a member of the American Association of Marriage & Family Therapy, and received the Distinguished Service Award from the MN Association of Marriage and Family Therapy.